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reapersun:

john and sherlock make the casebook~
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someone (sorry i replied to you so i don’t have your name anymore!) asked me if i would make casebook art and i said i was probably too busy but then i looked at my to-do list with like twenty two things on it and suddenly instead of actual work casebook art happened

reapersun:

john and sherlock make the casebook~

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someone (sorry i replied to you so i don’t have your name anymore!) asked me if i would make casebook art and i said i was probably too busy but then i looked at my to-do list with like twenty two things on it and suddenly instead of actual work casebook art happened

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i-m-ben-addicted:

Jesus Christ…

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Anonymous asked

i feel this is the only safe space in the fandom to say this, but there are some really shitty things in the johnlock fandom that really piss me off. i've never been surrounded by so much ignorance about the gay male community and by women no less. the gay baby shit. the bottom shit, the virgin shit, the twink shit (which is being offensively misused by women in regards to queer men) all the john as the typical male asshole shit. God i hate this stuff.

jonnyluvssherlock:

aniceoldfashionedcupofequality:

thescienceofjohnlock:

jonnyluvssherlock:

this is a safe place.  i know exactly what you mean.  below i am going to put some of my person head cannon into the mix of things.  people don’t have to agree with me.  this got really long.

i’m going to start with John and how people have started writing/talking about him in a hyper masculine way asshole way.  the idea of hyper masculinity it actually really damaging to men.  people raise boys telling them not to cry, not to show emotions, to be strong and never show weakness.  when bad things happen they bottle it up inside instead of reaching out for help.  they are taught to be assholes to get what they want, that the world is there for there taking.  we create monsters, with stunted emotions.  this is what people are worshiping.  why?  

why do people want John to be abusive?  because thats what we are taught is sexy.  we are taught to think a men forcing us is fun.  people have put Sherlock in the woman’s role.  they have taken his strength, he has done some great hand to hand fighting in the show and made it so he won’t fight back.

to me John is very repressed emotionally.  i think he was taught to not cry or show weakness as a child, to keep it all inside.  he is very loving and has a strong moral code.  he’s not the kind of person who would get enjoyment from hurting someone he loves.  even at his angriest in HLV he kicked a table, and kicked it so it couldn’t hurt anyone.  the two times he hit Sherlock was party timing and what Sherlock said.  i think the first was because Sherlock hit him and John went into attack mode.  and the second was because Sherlock mocked his pain and John couldn’t take it. even then he could have done a lot more damage but he didn’t.

John seems like someone who stand on a precipice of anger and control. but since he’s met Sherlock he seems to be doing better.  He’s happier less stressed.  i see John and Sherlock’s relationship working like a sub/Dom one.  while at this point they aren’t having sex John is getting the emotional relief of being a sub to Sherlock who on several occasions has called himself John’s superior.  and John treats him that way.  i also think Sherlock enjoys being in control and as they enter a sexual relationship that sub/Dom relationship will expand into sex.  which will give John even more relief.

on to Sherlock and horrible terms people call him.  i just going to say i hate the term twink.  most of the gay men i know hate it.  i was out with a few friends of mine one night and some random drunk girl called one of them a twink and he got really pissed.  i know some club boys self identity as it and thats what they want so ok.  but it’s one of them call themselves a twink but if i said it, it’s not.  the term ‘gay baby’ will piss me off till the day i die.  i have gone over it and defined it, tried to talk to people how horrible it is and they just try to shut me up.  all i can do at this point is make my blog a safe place for people who don’t want that kind of stuff on there blog.

the virgin thing, as i have mentioned before virginity is a myth.  it was invented to control female sexuality.  aka men wanted to keep woman under there thumbs to they told them if they had sex they had sex before marriage they would be unclean and couldn’t go to heaven.  the definition in the dictionary is: “the state of never having had sexual intercourse.”.  but what about all people who will never have penetrative sex?  some people don’t.  the truth is there is no medical or biological definition.

http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/08/4-myths-about-virginity/

http://iwhc.org/2010/05/10-myths-about-sex-and-virginity-debunked/

here are one links to the myths and how they are debunked.  the virginity myth is terrible.

i am very sad that people are forcing virginity on Sherlock.  the show has mentioned he’s had sex but they are obsessed with keeping his a virgin and not only a virgin but a crying weak virgin.  let me make something very clear.  if the person you are about to have sex with isn’t sure they want to continue or if they’re scared, STOP.  you are raping them.

now onto bottoming.  personally i see John as a bottom but thats just me.  i mostly blame it on the fact that the first smut fic i read was a bottom John fic and the image of him being the bottom stuck.  while my preference is bottom John top Sherlock i do think they are switch couple, i just don’t read those fic’s.

the problem i see the most on tumblr is people not understanding that bottoming isn’t the automatic sub position.  that it isn’t un-masculine to bottom.  i know a lot of men who would be so offended if they saw how people talked about bottoming on here.  bottoming is about enjoying anal stimulation.  thats it.

sub and Dom is about a power exchange.  where a sub trust there Dom enough to hand over there power and for that Dom to help them though things.  it’s not violent, it’s about helping.  in a proper relationship the pair will set the scene to together, talk about what will happen, they will play, and then there will be after care and sometimes cuddling.  what ever the two need.

i also want to say (again) some subs bottom, some top, some don’t have penetrative sex.  the bottoming and the sub/Dom have nothing to do with the other.

i would love to educate some of these misinformed people about how queer sex actually works, and how the homophobic terms they use hurt people.  more then anything i would love to get them into a woman’s studies class.  for me a way i stopped using many of those bad tropes was to see how they effected me and other women on a everyday basic.  after i saw how they hurt me i would never think of using them against a character.

feel free to ask any more questions 

THIS so much all of this.

Your explanation on the distinction between bottoming and sexual control is awesome. I’d like to add that the idea that the penetrated party is supposed to be submissive also stems from the historical tendency to control women. Through the centuries this concept of female resistance has been put into our heads: women are not supposed to want and initiate sex themselves. They LET a man in during sex, they SUBMIT to him. To deny female sexual urges even further, a woman traditionally only opens her legs for love, to please the man, not for her own sexual desire. This doctrine has given men a lot of power over women in the past, especially in sexual encounters (including rape and victim blaming).  Bottoming is thought of as a submissive action because in our minds bottoming basically means  ”putting yourself in the woman’s position” a.k.a letting yourself be dominated. Now that we’ve become aware of the fact that some people actually want to be penetrated and can arrange that in aggressive or dominating ways, people might start to understand sex a little better. It would be good for the world to let go of these old concepts, as your post about fiction in the Sherlock fandom shows (I’ve been quite agitated about some of this stuff too) . Very nice post.

thank you for this added information.  this is a huge problem i find in writing and fanfic.  that we aren’t over those old misconceptions about sex and sex roles.  and while people are fighting to throw them off women another group is throwing them on gay men.  it troubles me.

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deebzy:

I want there to be a thing where John and Sherlock throw Mrs. Hudson a tiny birthday party and it’s just the three of them and they eat cake and maybe have some wine or something, and John and Mrs. Hudson dance while Sherlock plays violin and they sing Happy Birthday and it’s just really cute.

deebzy:

I want there to be a thing where John and Sherlock throw Mrs. Hudson a tiny birthday party and it’s just the three of them and they eat cake and maybe have some wine or something, and John and Mrs. Hudson dance while Sherlock plays violin and they sing Happy Birthday and it’s just really cute.

#uwu   #happy   #sherlock   
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snarrylock:

sherlock-undercover:

He almost cried… because he has a brother too.

it’s too bad most people don’t like TBB, because they forget scenes like this!

To me this just demonstrates that Sherlock has always cared about his cases and clients and the Sherlock we saw in Series 3 was a natural progression of this.

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floozys:

there’s a lot of unspoken pressure to keep liking the things you used to like and to keep dressing the way you’ve always dressed and to never question what you believe in and basically “be yourself” has slowly morphed into “be what everyone knows you as” but trust me when i say if you just give it up and simply make decisions and take actions based purely on what would make you happy, you’ll gain a very comforting sense of self peace   

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captain-liddy:

Sometimes after cases, John will do impressions of the clients for Sherlock. John isn’t very good at impressions, but Sherlock still laughs until he cries. It’s partly the rush of adrenaline after finishing a case with John. But it’s also just giddiness from the heady delight Sherlock feels every time John does something just to make him smile or laugh.

Sherlock loves a thousand things best about John, but one of the very best is John’s eagerness to reach out to him with friendship and affection. To show him the camaraderie he’s known so little of in his past. To delight him and to be delighted by him. Yes, John’s droll expression when he makes a joke is hilarious, but to Sherlock, it’s also the most beautiful thing in the world.

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Some new questions from Benedict’s Time Out Interview

cumberbum:

I saw that you recently took the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge very seriously. You did it several times and made a whole short film of it.
‘Yes, I chose all the shots and rehearsed it with my niece – who acted as my director of photography! The first time we tried it she’d stopped filming and I had to do it all over again. I got a cut above my eyebrow from the ice.’

You did it several times.
‘Yes, well, Tom Hiddleston had done it once, and then the Internet was asking when I was going to do it and if I’d wear a white T-shirt apparently. And I actually did wear a white T-shirt for the last one, which they [the fans] were apparently quite happy about, so I was saving the Internet! My agent rung me about it first. I was all: ice bucket what? And I was in the middle of doing Shere Khan and some voice work for “The Hobbit” and something else. Then I cottoned on to what it was and what it was in aid of and I thought: I need to do this properly. I was late and had been nominated more than once so I did it a few times.’

Your nominations were interesting: the producer Harvey Weinstein, Kylie Minogue and Lewis Hamilton. Why them?
‘I thought it was a bit grubby: how far can you cast your celeb friends net? But I wanted a really diverse set of people. I thought Hollywood in general would thank me for throwing ice on Harvey, who’s game. Then Kylie’s just really game and sport and super sweet, and that sent it into the world of music. Then I was bringing it back to the British thing with Lewis Hamilton.’ [x]

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cumberbum:

Open in new tab for 612 x 918 [x]

Is this the new thing? Benedict undressing?

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snowunderthestars:

My hand refuses to draw nothing but johnlock
I’m a mess

snowunderthestars:

My hand refuses to draw nothing but johnlock

I’m a mess

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